Warning Signs

There is no one list of warning signs that will tell you if you are a victim. You are the expert. If you are in a relationship that is concerning you, or if anyone - even a stranger - is behaving in ways that cause you concern, some warning signs to watch for include:

Frequent loss of temper
Abuse of alcohol and/or drugs
Extreme jealousy
Expects you to spend all of your time with him/her or inform him/her of your whereabouts
Following
Threats
Physical or verbal abuse
Damage or destruction to your property
Puts you down in front of your friends
Talks about violence or is fascinated with themes of violence
Makes your family or friends feel scared or uneasy
Offers of unsolicited help
Refuses to accept "no" for an answer
Isolates you from your friends and/or family